.please call me bj...i am a 49 year old mother of four wonderful
children...one grandchild...my best friend is also my significant
other..we have shared 16 wonderful years together..

he is very supportive of anything i do, from my job to my bowling...he
helped me through the trials and tribulations of raising 4 children..
he helped me with homework, and housework while earning my college
degree..

i am a survivor of physical abuse and alcoholism...i have graduated
from college...i work full time at a nursing home as a cook...i am
currently enrolled in a course to become a certified dietician..i am
continually learning...from my children, friends, and the residents at
my job....

i am an indepedent demonstrator for a rubberstamping company..i am an
avid bowler as well as crafter..i love life in general, and have a
positive outlook on the world...